HAPPY POSITIVE PERSON –

HAPPY POSITIVE PERSON –

As I have gotten older, I have continued to grow and change as a person. Not only have I matured but I have continued to improve my mental state and wellbeing. I am now of an age where I have lived more years than I have remaining. That is okay. In those years I have learned a lot about myself and I am the best version of me yet. I have a long way to go and I will enjoy every moment of my growth.

I have learned that I was deeply affected by the emotions and feelings of those around me. It took me many years to figure this out. Now that I have, I am learning how to handle and control it. Something that I find myself thinking often is “Be true to yourself.” I have a post it note stuck to my bathroom mirror that says “Be true to yourself” which reminds me throughout the day.

For a long time, I wondered why I had such bad luck. Bad things just kept happening to me and my partners. These things would pile up and dim my internal light. That light kept shining and trying to get stronger but bad things kept happening to us. I eventually realized that my partners were negative which can bring bad karma. After the breakup with each of them, my Karma changed immediately and good things happened.

I am different now – I don’t let the feelings of others impact my feelings. I think about whether what I am feeling belongs to me. If it does not, I change my mindset. I feel that I am more empathetic to their feelings but I no longer adopt them.

Through all of this I have realized that, overall, I am a happy, positive person. Do I have moments when I am not positive? You bet I do! It mostly comes up in business because I have been doing what I do for a long time and I look at the “big picture” which is not always what others take into consideration.

As for Karma – I believe!!! I have seen it with my own eyes. People who are not good have bad Karma. People who are good have good Karma. Mine changed from bad to good the moment I removed bad people from my life and started being true to myself. When bad things happen, I handle them much better than I ever have. That is growth.

My advice to everyone – Be true to yourself!